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Divorce & Family Law

cl_top_2 Frequently Asked Questions about Divorce:

 

It may seem obvious but just what is divorce?

 

I have heard that some people have had their marriages annulled, what does that mean?

 

Do I have grounds for divorce?

 

I am not sure I want a divorce. Why must it be so final ?

 

I really would like to know just where I stand. What rights have I got ?

 

I want to have an amicable divorce, is it possible?

 

My spouse has said that they are going to defend the petition. Can they do this?

 

My Husband has said he is going to apply for a residence order (custody) of the Children and I am so worried. What can I do?

 

My wife's/husbands behavior has been bad and yet I am told the Court will not take behavior into account. Why is this?

 

 I am asked to pay money for lawyers bills at a time when I am stretched for money. Why is divorce so expensive?

 

Divorce is the legal dissolution of your marriage. Once divorced you are no longer legally married to your husband or wife. Its a big step but one that many others have taken. Certain rights and obligations come to and end but there may be others in there place such as the obligation to pay maintenance.
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If your marriage is annulled it means that a court has decided that your marriage has never legitimately taken place. This is a very rare occurrence. Most people just get divorced. In the UK it is a relatively quick and painless exercise though not one to be entered into lightly.
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This depends. There is only one ground for divorce that the marriage has broken down irretrievably however, you have to prove one of five things,:

 

A. Adultery by your husband or wife.

B. Unreasonable behavior by your husband or wife.

C. Desertion for two years.

D. Two years separation with agreement.

E. Living apart for five years.

 

There is an alternative to divorce, Judicial Separation. It is the same as divorce except that you can't remarry and is designed mostly for people with religious or other views against divorce. There are three reasons however why divorce is often the best option :

 

A. If you believe the marriage has broken down irretrievably then it is better to get things over and done with as quickly as possible.

 

B. If you do run into difficulties over how to divide up the assets, maintenance etc then a divorce court can make an order to settle any disagreement.

 

C. Only the divorce court can make an order which settles financial matters once and for all. This will stop either you or your partner from going back on any agreement which may have been reached over money.

 

I really would like to know just where I stand. What rights have I got ?

 

The answer to this question is different for virtually every person. The courts have a wide discretion over what they will and will not do when faced with problems arising out of the marriage breakdown. It is only after careful consideration of each case that an answer can be given. The court's objective is to enable parties of a failed marriage "wherever fairness allows" to go their separate ways.
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Few people really want a non amicable divorce but in truth many couples spend a lot of time arguing over issues which cause pain for very little gain.

 

Our aim is to make the amicable divorce a reality for you whilst at the same time making sure that you are being protected both financially and emotionally.
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When you have decided that your marriage is over or had it decided for you, it is best to get the divorce over with as quickly as possible. We have all heard about divorces which take many years and costs many thousands of pounds. These divorces do exist but they are thankfully rare. The average time in Leeds for the divorce itself is approximately six months and possibly longer if there are children and financial matters to deal with.
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The short answer is yes  but sometimes disputes involving children and property can't be resolved. If you do have to go to court we will brief you fully on the procedure and do our best to put any fears or worries you may have to rest.
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Yes, but it is unlikely. Firstly it is expensive to defend and secondly the only defenses are that the marriage has not broken down (unlikely if one party says it has) or that the marriage has broken down but the it is your "fault" the marriage has broken down. Defended divorces are so rare that despite the many thousands we have completed over the years we have not had a defended divorce in the past five years.
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When marriages break down and bitterness creeps in husbands sometimes say they want to take the children even though they have spent little time with the kids prior to the divorce. This can either be a genuine belief that the children will be better off with them or maybe just an ill thought out proposal (husbands usually work full time) or a case of hitting the woman where it hurts most.
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Legal help for both parties usually resolves the problem without  going to court enabling parents to prioritize what is best for the children and that usually means the children staying with their mother.

 

There are two reasons: the glib answer is that you are going to a court of Law and not of  morality and the other more practical reason is that if the court had to sort out  the rights and wrongs of who did what during the marriage the case would never end the divorcing couples costs would escalate without it serving any purpose.
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The cost of not paying for advice at a very traumatic time can be even more expensive  both emotionally and financially. Sure you can ask your friend what to do and there will be no end of people willing to give well meaning advice, but, in this area of life more than anything else "You get what you pay for". Sometimes the money spent now can prevent the breakdown of a divorce turning into a disaster which takes years if  ever  to recover from. And yes Legal services can be expensive. They are charged by the hour and so if you wish to argue it will cost you but if you are realistic and well advised (as you would be with us) it will be money well spent.

 

Questions? 

If you are in the West Yorkshire area or are contemplating court proceedings in the area please phone  us.

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